She got very drunk at a party last week and another co-worker asked to share her toilet in a busy night club. A really cute girl I hadn't seen for a long time kissed me and we danced. Her capacity to be faithful to you for life really depends on her upbringing, beliefs and what stage of life she is at right now. It all depends on the person. Three days later my girlfriend asks for a break straight out of the blue. But considering how much you can trust her.
There's nothing sexual about it, it's not as if they're open mouth kissing or making out. I was shocked as I guess as I never thought she would do anything like that! So many straight girls kiss their friends when they are drunk. She ran after me with tears and stopped me right before I walked in. She told you about it right up front. Seems the poor girl is just a little repressed and needs to some fun.
When I asked her if there was something wrong two days later she lied to me and said that everything was fine. And you know gymgirlie is rarely positive about anything. Has she dated girls in the past?. She's very conservative and I can tell when she's lying. But I dont regret forgiving her one time. I refuse to because I don't like the idea of if there is one person I really care about, I wouldn't want her doing anything with anyone else regardless of the situation. How it works for anyone else should have no bearing here.
She said she was confused about her life and needed time to think things through. How would you feel if she kissed another guy? Women can remain faithful in a long distance relationship and a perfect example of that is when men are deployed overseas for their work with the armed services e. Being angry about being attracted to a girl is like asking her to deny part of who she is. She visited me after 6 months and also stayed here in 3 weeks. They don't want to be seen as teases, doing it for attention, etc. She came out today telling me that earlier in the day, she was drinking with some friends and playing games Apparently she wasn't drunk , and was dared to kiss another girl. Regardless of how good your intentions are and how great of a guy you really are, demanding that of her will make her feel like she is trapped in a relationship with an insecure guy, which will actually make her feel more attracted to the guy she recently kissed.
Can I let her have boys as her best friend again? She was honest and upfront by volunteering the information, so I personally wouldn't feel that as a breech of trust, especially if this is the first thing she's done to make you think twice. But when things start to get difficult again, will she be able to resist any temptation of cheating? If you're a chick and you're bi that means you are attracted to men, and women. If she can be there for you when youre angry and sad it means she cares about you and want the realationship to work again. If any one of these cracks up a bit the other goes down the drain too. The fact is she's a girl kissing another human that attracts her.
Clearly both of them needed to be loved, and because they were so close friends I believe both of them felt sad and it just happened. If they were, that says something about her character, that she would sacrifice her dignity to impress me, which isn't impressive. So you have to give her credit for that. My wife and I are happily married, while her friend is also in a relationship. She misses us more than ever. Though they way I've always felt if my girlfriend, who is straight, kissed another girl, or slept with another girl I would be fine. This decissions are the toughest to make, because any road you take you're going to be experiencing strong feelings.
Best, J :eek: I have been with my girlfriend for four years. I agree that if she is trying to hide it then that is the bigger issue. Not all women want to settle down for life with the first great boyfriend they find. Being drunk is not an excuse for doing anything wrong, so don't let her off the hook for that. She was genuinely crushed when I ended it. Does not mean she does not want you and she may have been just drunk but it all comes out in the wash as they say.
I needed time and space and just before christmas I decided to forgive her because I seen how remorseful she was and she's begged me for another chance saying she can't bare to lose me and can't bare to see me hurt so much. So, what should you do? I wouldn't worry about it and give her the benefit of the doubt, unless she's realized she might have same sex tendencies and wants something more with this girl. How foolish will I feel? If I had a girlfriend who acted like me, I would break up immediately. So the contact just got worse and worse. Now she has experiemented, realized that she loves you, and wants to come back. Because it first starts with a kiss and then it will go all the way, and you'll be back in a formal relationship without saying it or noticing it.
I really want to give myself some time and think about this. Give the poor girl a break, she isn't married to you and if she feels the need to experiment, allow her to do that, or she will regret you for it. Give the poor girl a break, she isnt married to you and if she feels the need to experiment, allow her to do that, or she will regret you for it. I thought about leaving her at the party as penance, since I was designated driver and infuriatingly sober, but thought better of it, and dragged her ass home, where we proceeded to fight until the sun came up. I felt that I needed to punish her for what she had done. Did he bring it himself? Now there are several factors which are making feel uneasy about this, also several reasons as to why I don't just break up with her right now. The potential is definitely there! If I get in a car accident while driving drunk, I still wrecked my car.
Because most likely your girlfriend will want to know who she is, and if she knows that you are still hanging out with her, there is really no chance that a break up won't happen. It crushed my heart and my relationship but she wants to get back together and I just don't know if I should. When you go through something really tough Failed exam, car crash, ex bf's being around that toughness just compounds itself! Are you a jealous guy? But when she got in the shower I couldn't resist! You have no clue on how great we are together when we hang out. Obviously everyone has different standards though. We have been together for over two years and I love her very much and she loves me very much. Long distance is incredibly tough! But its really hard to bee like that with the girl I love. It's cool when your buddy's girlfriend makes out with a girl- not your girlfriend.