I love the person my husband is, I love the father he is to my kids but I am just not sure if I am in love with him. I never felt close to her. Even more so because I now have found out about another ex that she has had contact with. Idk what to do or think. We may be attracted, we may be eager; we may be emotionally and physically ready.
Unless you can pinpoint the change, it might mean that another person has had influence over them and that deep, meaningful conversations have given way to new opinions. Try and look honestly at your and his behaviour and how it is like a loser. Gayle Peterson All rights reserved. The hardest part is there really isn't a decision to make between the two of them as neither him nor I are prepared to end our marriages. I wondered if any of you could put in your thoughts on the projected success of this relationship based on your experience. I felt no guilt whatsoever. The ex is a person who is not faithful so I know it would be hard to trust him again.
Gal Szekely, founder of a therapy center for couples, told Huffington Post that when someone is having an emotional affair, and the person they're cheating with in a good light. I wanted to throw up at the foolishness of this. Many years ago I was engaged to a girl whom I loved very much. He works at night 4 hours from home, only home every other weekend. The euphoria you feel from enjoying each other physically brings this feeling back in full force, masking any reasons you got divorced in the first place. He ended up marrying someone else and not long after I also ended up marrying someone else.
But there are different versions of cheating, and I can honestly say that when you notice the , it's worse than hearing they kissed someone else. Am I a fool to believe??? None of that's good, as now you wonder if the blast from the past, will be worth leaving a marriage that you left emotionally long ago. Emotional cheating with your former love never starts off intentionally. She preferred being angry to figuring out what the problem was that was preventing us from intimacy. He arrived a few months later and we married right away. Anyway, she was going through a separation from her husband and wanted someone to talk to so I obliged.
Just that month alone, there were 1997 texts! Neither marriages are good, mine worse due to alcoholic husband that has no libido or ability due to meds for depression. He holds my hand when we go out and opens my car door for me as well. I think you likely knew where the two of you would end up. Hi Kimberly, You will find everyone here is helpful and have some very wise advice. I hope this helps some who are just beginning the journey. With my situation, not talking to him all these years has left a huge question mark in my soul, and I can't go forward until it is answered. Then something happened and we were separated, I never even got the chance to say goodbye to him.
If you find yourself on either sides of this situation, try to understand it. Your ex has a new title, that of cheating spouse and you gave it to him. As much as we both want it, it's next to impossible to have both men in our life. He is my biggest weakness in life and just can't seem to figure out why. You could have not contacted him at all. Not to give out any details, but let's just say jailtime on his part was involved.
We were supposed to get married and he ended up running off with another woman. And leave them alone, leave the past alone. My ex was a serial cheater for the last 4 years that I know of of a 27-year relationship. One I am willing to take, but the road is gonna be very tough. Or do you slant the truth and message that all is well? My family also hated him and highly discouraged us being together.
As a result of that first survey, Dr. They divorced about 12 years ago but have two daughters together. Fix or end your relationship with your husband for your own charactar and integrity. Saying that you have always been faithful does not make it ok to be unfaithful now, which you have been by contacting your former girlfriend in secret. Hi, Saw this and thought I would request advice.