I wonder if some of it is because he is about 40 pounds overweight? Lisa I am in the same exact position. I feel like this can ruin our marriage because it really bothers me a lot. That is absolutely the approach I will use with my husband when I talk to him soon. Frances Simmons I stopped having sex with my husband about 4 months ago because of how unsatisfied i am with his sex and how unattracted I am with him physically and sexually. Last night I felt more pressure than normal for an explanation so I finally was honest with him — I was as gentle as I could be about it, but he was still hurt and angry and accused me of not loving him and being superficial about our relationship. We had our first softball practice as teammates at 1. I saw him in the window watching me.
And me, completely and utterly — embarrassingly — irrational about it all. A woman carry extra fat after puberty, women gain weight during pregnancy and during menopause. Several years ago both her and I became pretty big foodies and experimenting with some great recipes and evenings out once a week with some great dining. I am a freelance writing wife and mother who is in no way an expert in the subject of love and marriage. This is from a guys point of view.
. Harry I take a long time, I always have. It sounds like you have that taken care of. Thyroid disease is especially common in older people and especially women. My lungs and throat are raw also. My boyfriend and I have been dating for a few years and I really love him, he loves me and we started having sex about a year ago - November 14, 2011 to be exact! Our words left our mouths and burst like bubbles above our heads. He was so out of shape he just rushed through it before he ran out of stamina.
Is there no acceptable, compassionate way for women or men in a similar situation to address this issue? It think that means I really have been listening to you, Hy. Ahem, you are just checking out the dog that they are walking etc. Janice I had this exact problem with my husband about 35 years ago. Get a paddle back hairbrush or a spoon and go to the bedroom. I have no professional qualifications or specialized knowledge in marriage and relationship fields of study. I work so I am dressed everyday and my hair is done and I wear make-up. My best friend always had it bad for my hotwife and one night while we were at his place playing strip poker and beer and shots he got the chance.
State you admiration to athletes during the olympics or another contest. I used to be turned on by the sight of his penis, but now his belly is just in the way. In my case, wifey took care of purchases and dinner to help me not falling for the temptation to buying something unhealthy on weekdays. Once we had our first child, he started to put on some weight. I took off at a full sprint. This comes down to his laziness. My husband used to be in shape, worked out all the time and he cared about his appearance.
I try to talk to my husband about our marriage but he never wants to talk. Despite what we tell ourselves about our lives, the heart never lies. I guess the grieving process comes in many different ways. He is an addictive personality and food is his coping mechanism. I am assuming you have told him about this, then again I didnt hear you say that.
He can pute in a bad mood as soon as he walks through the door. This is a depressing situation, made worse by the fact that he recently went bankrupt, losing our company of 8 years. I ran to change into more appropriate clothes and I heard the door knock from my bedroom. I am not a marriage counselor nor do I have any background in counseling. I literally had to wash after. Within 6 months, I had lost 25lbs.
This problem with him taking too long to have an orgasm is really starting to affect my relationship with my husband. Our sex life is better than when we first started dating over 30 years ago. Lisa I am so glad I found this site! And had you not done something about it, look at all the years and kids you would have missed out on with your husband. Looking at him actually serves as good motivation for me. No execersize, not eating better, nothing. Grrrrrrrrr Smiley I was the guy you ladies are talking about. So many of you say you love your husbands but are completely turned off by them, even repulsed.
We married young, at 22, and he immediately began putting on weight. To me there is absolutely no excuse for a man to get fat apart from injury or disease. I did some reputable research and this is considered normal for some men as they get older and have been in same relationship. We panted and clung to each other. I would say take it slower if it's starting to hurt and use lots of lubrication and make sure your clitorus is getting enough love.