Best of luck to you and your wife. I encourage her to work out doctor's orders since she's put on a ton of weight since we got married , eat healthy, go for walks together. I love my girlfriend so so much, I'm really at wits end with her and I just can't tell if she is being a brat, immature, if she really does have mental problems, or if it is just hormones but I just can't tell what the he'll is wrong with her and Ian about to lose it. She tells me she hates me at least once a week and throws little 6 year old fits and storms out of the room. We've heard of it, but we brush it off cause it's not going to happen to me.
I've tried to talk with her about this, being rational and calm. However, she has too live with those moods constantly for nine months and beyond when things settle down internally. The bottom line is, it seems like there's a signal mismatch - she's asking you for X and while you're bending over backwards to give her X in droves, she keeps getting Y as far as she can see. Hates the way I walk, breath, eat popsicles. She was hit hard with this pregnancy as she has been bed ridden for 7 weeks. I am so happy and overwhelmed and there is lots more she doesnt want me she doesnt want me to touch her or talk to her or bath with her or take our son to school or go out with me or even be alive ive never abused her i always love her and look past the hatred she has for me and my silly mistakes ok once i posted myself on a dating site to wind her up and left it for her to find and i regreted it instantly so much so i wiped out any contact with this site i apologize to her for all that i have done i help her out or used to now she doesnt want it she doesnt even want me to touch her womb to feel and stroke our baby. Does she know she's doing it? It's so unfair, and you feel like everything is your responsibility, but you can't control your actions or your body like before you were pregnant.
It's an amazing time and I wish all of you the best of luck. I am worried about her emotions and how i can keep myself from going into depression. Dad's, keep your head up, and there is a light at the end of the tunnel except for the airplane 1st class seat guy. The love of my life is so tender at times with her emotions but in a flip second she can become the devil. When you consider them together, a picture emerges of your partner as selfish and self-absorbed, always putting her own needs first. Those things that are truly important to you are worth standing up for.
She has three children from a previous relationship which was abusive. Love your wife and love your kids. I am gone 13 hours a day working, always reachable by phone. Can't talk to her about anything can't be around her and all that. The child who irritates her? I can't believe the crap these women are dishing out.
And if all else fails. I began wondering if crazy pregnant logic could be mapped to real life logic, and answer the ageless question of why pregnant women yell at fathers. She realizes all of this and it sucks. Get a book and read up on pregnancy massage, rub her feet, legs shoulders and neck. Oh my goodness- I'm normal!!! I'm probably too unemotional about this whole thing - I show I care by reading recall notices of cribs rather than discussing how magical it all is - several of you guys made this point to me and it is duly noted. I need to extend my 'count to ten' technique to about 35 or 40 maybe. It won't feel like that right away but after months of bonding with your child you'll feel more for your child than anyone else in the world.
I love him with all my heart and I would do anything for the man but he does the stupidest things to piss me off and it may not be big things its mainly the little tiny things he does to set me off and make me feel like he is not in this with me. I love reading this site, it helps so much!! I'm trying really hard but she is doing everything in her power to hurt me. He should really be the one trying to find ways to make you feel better. Ask him to support as he has been doing before you got pregnant instead of making you feel bad because you cant help feeling sick. Good luck to you and your wife and Congrats on your soon to be new arrival! Love pregnancy it's been a pleasure. I left my work, stole our car while it was parked at her work and told her if she cheats on me I'll kill her dog. I'm embarrassed to say this but he puts his hands on me.
I know you said you have talked to her, but to no avail. I gotta remember to stick with the advice I just read, and remember to hit back with the i love you's and you look great. I bet, though, that if she loves you and she probably does because she is having your baby she will realize it and you'll work it out. I don't really know what to do about it - on top of that, my mother-in-law is very annoyed that I have been missing some of their family events - this is because I have been quite sick, although I have been out and about due to events I promised to attend before morning sickness hit. The kids on the way and school is most important for the future.
. She had told me to stop trying to fix what's not broken but wants nothing to with us. Finally, you sound like you're going to be an awesome dad! Now she is saying things like 'If I get rid of it, we'll finish but if I keep it, I'll be like this for the next 2 years so we're gonna finish anyway' god its confusing. Unfortunately, and I assume many others have had this issue I have occasionally been mean, pissy, whiny, and confused. You could offer to give her a foot rub at the end of the day and use that as time to sit and talk.
It takes all of my strength to not take the low road out. To Dadat24, Dude I feel your pain, your story sounds pretty much like mine except for the ex. I was almost to the point of just walking away, she says she wants a divorce, an abortion, that marrying me was the worst mistake of her life. And I see some pregnant women who are far along in their pregnancy still getting up to grab their boyfriends another beer while they sit on their lazy asses playing video games. If this isn't a joke, you really need to do a whole lot of making up and show her you can be considerate of her condition and what she is going thru.
This time is truly a proving ground. Was she like this before? Hold onto your bellies, ladies… 1. All my friends that I constantly talk to about my situations that have had children say some of this stuff is not normal. A highly sexualized society delivers an alluring drumbeat of distractions. Every annoyance in a relationship is really a two-way street. Stop it you lazy bastard.